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That is where you must go to have any meaningful communication with them.Phrase everything in a way that doesn’t assault their view of reality.Now how do you get them to do what they should have already done? Otherwise, we now have passive-aggressives dealing with one another.

Don’t even think of talking to them when you’re angry. (To learn an FBI behavior expert’s secrets for getting people to like you, click here.) So you’re talking to them in a way they won’t reject.

The strategy is simple and almost foolproof, but it is seldom employed.

(To learn the 4 rituals neuroscience says will make you happy, click here.) Some people will say that sounds all too simple. So how do you punish bad behavior with someone who is itching to paint themselves as the victim and you as the jerk? That just feeds their narrative of “Me: Victim; You: Bully.” But their bad behavior causes problems for you and it needs to cause problems for them too.

Never let them guess what you want; the consequences are too great if they get it wrong.

Tell Passive-Aggressives in explicit detail what it takes to please you and praise them profusely when they do it.

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