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When Becky asked him how long he’d been divorced, he admitted that it wasn’t final yet, that he was living in the basement of the home that he and his wife shared, and that they’d only been separated for three weeks.
Becky gently told her date that he needed to first pursue emotional and spiritual healing. But dating so soon will almost inevitably lead to heartache, since he’s neither emotionally nor legally available.
This may mean seeking out your pastor for support, joining a Divorce Recovery group or visiting a Christian counselor.
Some divorced church-goers try to convince themselves that God’s command to abstain from sex doesn’t apply to them — that it’s for the never-married crowd.
Healing is also necessary to follow God’s command to” do unto others what you would have them do unto you,” (Matthew ). Editor's note: I'd like to welcome the newest Divorced Girl Smiling Contributor, Gretchen Hydo. I've been following her for a long time and reading her articles.His side: “I came home one day and my wife told me she didn’t want to be married anymore. If you're looking for something to do with your kids, (and they like the Cubs) this is an adorable play, and you can make a day of it in the city! Like Jennifer, she needs some advice but is concerned about how she can make the transition into dating easy on her children. He’d like to date again, and some of his friends say he should start looking for a woman now — after all, he’s getting divorced soon.But John knows better because he’s still married, and dating now would go against God’s desires.