Dating profile inspiration
Dating bios should all follow a simple rule: all the data in your profile (age, height, photos) should be as accurate as humanly possible.
The bio, while also accurate, is where the hard sell can come in.
Use that £10-or-so a month to buy your date a drink.
And this way, when you secure a match, it’s quite likely that the other person shares a similar sound outlook.). Your match is definitely going to ask about music if it’s on your profile, so save the embarrassment and share the songs you love. You should therefore adopt a positive attitude only when it comes to opening the app. Mazel tov, but imagine if that was how you introduced yourself in real life. Don’t make it niche: if it’s a TV show, make sure it’s Bodyguard rather than Supergirl, if it’s a news story, make sure it’s something exotic and exciting rather than a murder in their next of the woods, if it’s politics… We mentioned the importance of songs in bios earlier – and this is where the musical interests come into play. Open with a comment about a band he or she likes or if they’ve highlighted a track from an album you like kick off the conversation with a remark about another track on the LP.
You’re a lot more likely to find the right person that way. Do not- DO NOT- rely on obvious interests or state anything that is a substitute for a personality rather than part of one. You’re there to meet new people, so what’s to be glum about? Be open-minded and utilise the beauty of the app to get to know someone. If there was a word cloud for Tinder, the word ‘hey’- no punctuation, no additions- would be the largest presence there. Almost all variants of this are equally incompetent too: no winky faces. Clarifying mutual interests is basically like clarifying compatibility.
You want to say why you’re appealing without playing every card in your deck. If you can, try to add a question that will make your potential match interested. Nobody is attracted to vagueries, and you, dear reader, are not at all vague. Say you love a man who believes in equality/feminism/basic decency. Do not make anyone feel like they’re not good enough to match with you. - in a dating profile is to provide springboards for future conversation.
This is the dance of the singular veil, if you will. I’m not talking about cringy pick-up lines – “I’m lost. ” OK, some do find this amusing, and comedy is key, but better to let a suave sense of humour flow through a conversation after you’ve matched. Keep it specific, and show that you have a personality. Negative profiles suggest negative people, which suggests you’ll be negging all the way through that first drink. Also, do not think it’s acceptable to state what your type is in a profile. And never- I realise I’m being very negative in a section about positives- state if you have a racial preference. If you take nothing else away from this article, take this away.