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We seem to share a vision of what our futures look like.

He tells me he thinks we complement each other well and that we have a long future ahead of us.

Now what makes things even harder to navigate is this: you’re really stuck on this guy. Why bail on a promising relationship just because there’s a hint of trouble? And you can’t let fear make your decisions in life. As you’ve identified, there’s a chance he won’t be able to overcome his past, but it seems to me like he has all the best intentions in attempting to do so.

And you’re writing to me to make sense of what seems like contradictory advice, “wait and see,” or “believe the negatives and run.”Honestly, you don’t have to decide today. Which is why I see this situation through a prism of cautious optimism. As I see it, the script of your relationship has yet to be written. One of my favorite quotes is: “The only risk is the one not taken.”I wonder if she would consider staying if she was 10 years younger than she is now.

I know there are other interesting men out there (they are still pursuing me!

), but I am still more interested in seeing what this man has to show. The good: You have the awareness and self-esteem to realize your boyfriend is not the last man on Earth. You need more safety and intimacy, and when you don’t get it, you feel triggered.

It sounds to me like he’s a good man, who is into you and is working through his issues. I can’t help but think that that almost anything can be spinned into a red flag and one would only tolerate red flags (Maybe it’s an orange flag in this case) if they felt they couldn’t do much better than they are doing now.

Speaking of red/orange/yellow flags, what imperfections can exist in a person without them being any sort traffic light coloured flags?

I wonder – should I cut my losses or stick things out a bit longer to find my pot of gold at the end of the rainbow?

But, as someone with an anxious-frightened attachment style, this can be particularly provoking for me.

He is always open and available to speak about my needs and feelings – but is not always equipped to handle my expressions.

He has the ability to connect with women within seconds by speaking to their emotions.

And that's exactly what he teaches his coaching clients.

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